by Luigi Di Serio

During the cold war, the former USSR established one of the most sophisticated special services in the world, which trained female spies to seduce men. There has been a book put out recently about sex spying. A girl narrates the story about the KGB and how they recruited woman, promising them that they would have all kinds of imaginable welfare, if they would agree to fulfill their civil duty and become sex agents. This is called "sexpionage".

In the intelligence world a "Raven" or a "honey pot" is an agent employed to seduce females to engage in espionage.

What is the significance of this? Being a spy is all about deception, perception and gaining one's trust, and so is being a player. It does not matter who you are... it matters who they think you are. That’s why confidence is so paramount, in an approach to a target, you must show them what they want to see and tell them what they want to hear, that's how you get in and gain trust.

You could be the nicest guy on the planet, but you may come across as a creep because of your lack of proper presentation. You only need to make them think you are nice, sweet, rich or interesting, whether you are or not is not the point.

Spies must learn how to get any information from anyone, which means they need an array of people skills and must have great linguistic abilities. I advise studying the dictionary, the thesaurus and learning terms and words that will give you the ability to impress with your speech. If you speak with "apparent" complexity, you are already more interesting and appealing to females. If you compliment someone with unique expressions, they will, first off, think you are intelligence, and secondly, they will certainly be curious and ask what you mean by your expression, which allows you to further converse and influence them using your enlightening language skills.

Speech is critical; players need to be able to talk smooth, as do spies. Spies are also jack of all traits and trades. This does not mean you need to know everything about everything, just know a little bit about everything, this way, you will always have something to talk about. If a female in a conversation stumps you, you are cooked. They always test, as do enemies of the spy. (Watch how 007 picks up Jinx in Die Another Day, simply because he knows about Birds, strange but true!).

I am positive many of you have watched "spy" movies, and realized that movie spies are all master players. If you have not, rent a couple of good spy films and watch how they gain people's trust (whether male or female), and deceive them to fulfill their own agendas.

Telling woman you are employed in the Intelligence Industry is often interesting and it usually raises interests immediately. It’s the mystery and the curiosity that lures them in. However, never use this until you know some spy jargon and you have beefed up your language skills, or you'll look like a dumb-ass shooter. Never say you are a spy, because spies do not say they are spies anyway, always use the word “Intelligence”. If they proceed to ask you more about what you do, say you are simply involved in matters of national security or counter-intelligence analysis, but you can’t go into details. If they like the hint of danger, they are yours.

A spies' agenda might be to infiltrate into a network or into a countries' intelligence source, and a player's agenda is infiltrate into the opposite sex's pants. It's all the same.