"Turning Platonic Friends into Lovers Using Jealousy"
I'm going to get straight
to the point. If you want to exit the platonic zone, you
need to focus on two things.
Number one, it can be done. And number two, you must
make her jealous.
If you have any moral hold
ups or any mental roadblocks that will prevent you from
doing it, then continue to listen to the girl of your
dreams yap about some other dude that makes her horny.
No self-respecting man should allow such emasculating
events to occur, but it happens all the time.
Like I said, it can be
done. I've personally been on both side of the
equation and I have personally experienced the
effectiveness of it. Meaning I have had women that I
regarded as not sexy enough to be romantic with,
only to have them make me jealous to the point where
I ended up sleeping with them or in most cases
trying to without any success.
In these cases, the women weren't intentionally trying
to make me jealous, but the effectiveness of doing it
has nothing to do with whether the person was actively
trying to do it or not.
It has everything to do with sexual value. Making
someone jealous is one of the quickest ways to establish
your sexual value. I can not stress that enough. In the
platonic situation, she is use to you showing her some
level of romantic attention. Even if she isn't
interested in you, she still will be getting some good
feelings from the attention you show her.
Therefore, by showing that
your interest in elsewhere (making her jealous), you are
cutting off the platonic friend's good feelings. She
will lose a happy source. She will be drawn to you on a
level that she can't quite explain.
An unconscious attraction
will always be more powerful than a conscious
attraction.
For some reason, female
friends love to talk about other guys to their male
friends like he is one of their girlfriends.
Not only is this a fact,
it's an indication that you have zero sexual value in
the eyes of your female friend.
Here's how to reverse that.
The key is to bring up another female or a past
experience with a female with great detail. If you do it
the right way, you will feel the momentum switch back
your way.
Women want MEN. So remind her that you are a man.
Women always love attention.
If
you are listening or passively accepting the
emasculating
(balls-removing) act of being radiated by her lusting
over another guy, then that is no different than
giving her advice
on how to approach the guy or seduce the guy.
In either case
you basically have the
energy of a female.
If you want this female
friend, it should offend you when she yaps to you about
another guy.
The next time she does it, just remain calm. You don't
have to externalize your emotions.
You
will be more successful if you just calmly let her
speak. Then when it feels like it's your turn to talk,
you can calmly mention your story. This is the shift and
you will experience the beneficial magic. You will
notice and feel a slight shift in momentum. If anything
is ever going to happen between the two of you, this
slight shift must take place. This is the easiest,
quickest and most fun way of getting it.
So when it is your turn to
talk, just remember to be extremely descriptive - to the
point where you can sense that it is making her
uncomfortable. She must feel the discomfort. This is
where most of the points are scored. If you blurt out
your story, cut her off, or show that you are frustrated
with her talking about some guy, then you are not
accomplishing anything.
The idea is to
increase your sexual value. Acting overly emotional will
not accomplish that.
The idea is to reclaim your sexual value. And it is
universal. This works:
1.
If you are just protecting your balls even with a female
you don't even care about.
2.
If you want to increase your perceived sexual value in
the eyes of a female friend you are interested in.
3. If you
want to increase your perceived sexual value in your
relationship (often a current girlfriend or wife may
mentioned an ex-boyfriend in an uncomfortable fashion -
keep in mind, the energy is the same).
Here's how to be real
effective at the golden reversal.
1.
Be extremely descriptive in your story. You want your
story to run through her head. Remember women love fairy
tales, so they often exercise their imagination power by
daydreaming and fantasizing.
2.
Be calm. Let her talk. Let her get it out of her system.
Don't over-react by screaming at her to never talk about
other guys to you. Just let her talk and be calm.
You'll
get your turn.
3.
You can use it to send other important
messages (for example, you can talk about how a girl you
are seeing seems like she can't get enough sex from you.
You get the idea.)
You will know if you were
successful if:
1.
She accuses you of giving too much information or being
too graphic -maybe you went too far, but you still got
the job done.
2.
She appears kind of withdrawn or there is a moment of
silence - she is reflecting and absorbing.
3.
She attacks your story or the girl in some way. It's a
defensive mechanism. Keep in mind, the art of
making her jealous works and it is very powerful. You
can actually make a girl jealous within seconds of
meeting her. Statistics have shown that jealous wives
tend to be more sexual towards their husbands and will
often make an extra attempt to look more beautiful.
Remember, this a just
a tool that is very effective in reclaiming or
establishing your sexual value. Again if you have
any moral hold ups, you will continue to suffer.
There is nothing wrong with doing this, because the
bottom line is if you have no sexual value women
will not want to sleep with you.
You deserve sex.
The power of this
technique when applied to the platonic friend is that
she will not expect it, so you end up communicating a
lot of powerful messages.
You can perform the art of
jealousy in both directions.
Cultivating
jealousy is kind of like strengthening your arms. You
got to work the biceps (pull movements) and triceps
(push movements). Therefore, the target female has to be
jealous of your interest being displayed towards
(pushing out) another female as well as being jealous of
another female showing interest in you (pulling in).
Keep in mind, the
beauty of jealousy is that the events can be
perceived or loosely supported and they will be just
as effective. I told my girlfriend the other day
that I had this weird dream that I had sex with the
lady across the street (who is super sexy). It
worked like a charm. Afterwards, it appeared as if
she resented the woman! As if the woman actually had
sex with me. She obsessed over it the whole day.
Later on that night she put on an amazing sexual
performance.
I remember one time I was working at an
old job. I wasn't in a relationship at the time, but my
female coworker was. She was talking about her boyfriend
and how wonderful he was, so then I started talking
about this girl I was seeing.
I didn't necessarily take offense to the talks of her
man, but shortly after describing the events with the
girl I'm seeing, the co-worker appeared to get jealous -
even though she was admittedly in a loving relationship.
It was obvious. At the time I wasn't trying to make her
jealous, but shortly after we finished talking she
scheduled an "appointment" in her book for us to
hook-up.
Obviously nothing
is guaranteed, but to greatly increase your odds of
success you want to make sure that the friend is getting
something out you giving her romantic interest in her.
For example, if she smiles very hard, after a
compliment, then that is an indication of her getting
something out of it - even though she may be rejecting
you on the romantic level.
As a pre-step you may even want to pump up the flattery
for a few days, to get her quite addicted to those
feelings.
You want to maintain those
good feelings she is getting from you over a certain
period of time. This will get her really addicted to
those good feelings (and addicted to you, because you
are the owner of those good feelings). Then you want to
cut off those feelings instantly and place them
elsewhere. This created a shock. In other words, you
want the friend to gain knowledge that you are pursuing
someone else. And it is more effective if the friend has
the perception that the other female is interested in
you.
Once your female friend
starts showing interest in you, don't be so quick to run
in her arms like a lost puppy does when he's reunited
with his owner. There's plenty of resources out there
that explain how to keep her interested, but the main
thing you want to focus on is being nonchalant.
That should take you
pretty far.
